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You must be thinking this piece is somehow about me or my life. But let me tell you right away that it is not about me, it’s about each one of us. It’s about the cognition people derive about each other. It’s the perception people have about life around them. It’s about those who criticize people around them and about those who use that criticism as a strong fuel in their life.
Very often we hear ‘First impression is the last impression’. Isn’t that a crap? I believe so. Let me try throwing some light on that. First impression may be a substantial evidence for your belief about the other person but only if you are quite mature to understand that. First impression is always a first impression, not the last. It may be good, or it may be bad. But how can we assume that it is 100 % efficient? That one line has played over years with people’s psychology and never allowed people to look beyond that. So many people we meet in our life change for us as they mingle with us. Well frankly speaking they never change in their characteristics; we just see them without the shadow of our perception. Now isn’t that the criticism of our own understanding since childhood? Now if you still think that first impression is the last, what I would love to say here is ‘Cut the crap’.
It is very simple to understand; it depends upon you to guide your way into exploring things and exploring life. The most important people in this world today were the most ignored in their youth. Never forget one thing, even that most uninteresting person for you can be the customer of your venture. We all are the most important element of inspiration for the world around us; we just have to see it that way.
The one who became the prey of this psychological crap ever, trust me that’s the best thing happened to you. Every other time you are getting rejected because that’s not the best fruit from the tree of your life. Every other time you are getting closer to the thing that suits you. I strongly believe that those emotions and rejections are the most efficient fuels in your life. And trust me those people who once fired you by any means are going to adore the way you stood. Because according to me one shouldn’t live life the way it pleases others but the way they are because that’s the only way to please their life with something truly worthy.
Life speaks for winners and it speaks strongly. I wish you guys could have looked around and studied the laws of nature persist around you. Every looser according to this world (once upon a time), let it be Gates, Jobs, Buffet, Tata etc. have become someone ‘revolutionary’ in the areas where they once failed drastically to present themselves the way they could have pleased the people gathered to judge them. Life secretively took its own time to build those beautiful and inspirational ‘rockets’, and the rest of the world just watched them going out of the world. It’s just that we have to take some pain when life starts molding us into one of them.
As I meant since the beginning if you understood, ‘anything ever happens is the fuel of the rocket life is making out of us; we just have to fill it up’.
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